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01/08/09

Goodbye To A Friend
Horst Hoefinger

Bo’s friends mom passed away unexpectedly a few nights ago in her sleep.  Wendy, Spy’s mom, was a wonderful and caring woman and helped make  Dogster a special place.

She loved all the pups she met here and always had a kind word for everyone, she would never hesitate to lend a hand if anyone needed help.

I just want to take a moment to extend our deepest condolences to the family. We are so sorry about your loss, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Wendy you will be missed.

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  1. Lori

    Wendy was a much loved member of the Dogster Community. Our hearts go out to her family and all of her friends. I am terribly saddened by this loss.

    I met Wendy on my first day at Dogster when she came to visit HQ. I had numerous phone conversations with her since and she was a special lady. She loved her pets, Spy, Liz, and La La dearly. She loved Dogster and we loved her too!

    Lucy, Hambone, Miss Madhi, and Lori

  2. minister misty

    wendy was my first pal on dogster and in a heartbeat became so much more than just a puppal or a dogster.
    she bacame my friend.
    we gave eichother our email and that’s how a beautiful friendship blossomed.
    i live in the netherlands so we only had email and pawmail to deepen our friendship.
    if i started a dogstergroup?
    i did so with wendy.
    if i needed advice?
    i went to wendy.
    and also in my personal life,she became one of my sweetest,dearest friends.
    we emailed almost daily.
    she was a adopted granny for my three months old daughter amira.
    she made my birthcard for her.
    she was more than a friend.
    she was my sweetheart.
    i cannot expres the loss,emptyness and grief.
    dogster lost a hardcore dogsterholic.
    she deserves a dogster medaille.
    we will never forget her legace here on dogster.
    her spirit will not leave dogster.
    we as her close friends will make sure of that.

    LOVE YOU WENDY.
    FOREVER!

    your friend nathalie….
    your friend minister misty.
    bless you.

  3. Bridget

    I never knew Wendy, but just from looking at her picture, I can see her warm and generous spirit. I am so sorry for your loss and wish you comfort in the days ahead.
    -Bridget

  4. Linda

    Wendy was one of my very first friends here on Dogster…
    She as a kind, gentle and caring lady with a heart of gold..

    She adored her three furbabies and made friends easily and those friendships became everlasting..

    We will all feel the void of not having her around .!!

    My heart goes out to her three furbabies, and her family..

    Rest in peace my sweet and wonderful friend, I will not forget you.
    Linda (Mom to Georgie Girl and Daisy Mae)

  5. Lexus

    Wendy was a very caring woman who loved her family, pets, and friends with all her heart. She was always willing to give her all and is going to be greatly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with her an her family during this sad time.
    Lexi, Monnie, Angel Kismet an Family

  6. Bobbe and Sara

    Wendy and I visited Dogster HQ together and she and I put together several meetups in Norhern California. We’d always been talking about getting together for lunch, but sadly, it didn’t come to pass.

    Wendy’s warmth and caring nature will be sorely missed here on Dogster. Her spirit will live on in the hearts of those she touched.

  7. Bailey

    Wendy was always a good friend to everyone on Dogster. She was someone that was friendly and helpful to me when I joined Dogster. She will be missed by many. We send love and sympathy to her family on their terrible loss.

  8. Dr. Janet Herrmann

    Wendy and I exchanged notes about Yorkies. She was the breeder/owner/ of the famous Peppermint Patti. .. and had Yorkies before she had the doberman. We spoke on the phone on many occasions ….. and it is so hard to believe that my soon to be mentor on show dogs…..is gone. Unreal. She touched many loves and for sure her family is in our prayers. Niki, your daughter, was blessed to have you as a mother!
    Jan, L Pippin, and Jake ( our doberman at the bridge)!

  9. Jayden

    My condolences to Wendy’s family.
    Prayers for them all in this time of sorrow.
    Prayers for her furbabies.
    Jan & Jade

  10. St. Nickolas SD

    Nickolas met Spy shortly after me and Wendy joined and it was bestest buds at that moment. I believe Wendy was that sort of Soul from heaven. She was here to bring us together and just like hers and our furbabies they all give us that unconditional Love. ***tears flowing***Something I am working on myself!!! Wendy had a way with that, she liked to see us all get along.

    Her laugh was so contagious and you just felt like a kid with a kite giggling all hours of the night, with a flashlight underthe covers. She would slow things down and make sure to spend time with you. There’s no rush, I have no where to go……but I guess she did. God Bless you my bestest furend. I love you and miss you.

    Wendy was I think in every group and the best and most helpful Admin I have ever had. I could always count on her. I prayer for her soul and her family
    ***tears flowing*** I say my last goodbye however I will remember all your “Spyisums” to get me through.
    God Bless you my love.

  11. St. Nickolas SD

    woof~ woof~ woof

  12. Maynard

    When Cleopatra and I got married on Feb. 22, 2008, we had joined the C&D Cruiseline group to take a Honeymoon Cruise. Spy’s mom, Wendy, made very beautiful pictures of us on the cruise and of our dog sibs who work on the cruise ship. She was such a talented and beautiful lady and it is hard to understand that she is gone. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with her husband, her daughter-Nikki, and to Spy, Liz and LaLa.

  13. Oreo Fluff Cabrera

    I never had the chance to talk to Wendy. Just looking at her photo you can tell she was a very
    sweet person. My prayers and deepest condelonces go out to Wendy’s family.
    Hugs,
    Oreo & Mommy
    xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

  14. Spike

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to Wendy’s family (both human and furbabies). Bless her for being a beautiful, caring and wonderful woman.

  15. Kathy & Giz

    Wow, what do I say about this special lady. She was a friend to many and we were blessed to be a part of those lucky one’s. She was quick to help a dog in need, even if it was long distance. Her kindness was felt and her love will forever be in our hearts. Spy and family, we are so very sorry for your loss, we’re sending our prayers to you. Goodbye dear Wendy, May the angels hold you gently in their wings. Love & prayers, Giz and mom Kathy

  16. George, Sweet Caroline, FurAngel Daniel, Ned,and Mommy Diana

    Love and prayers go to the family of this wonderful woman. She will be sorely missed by many.

    Much Love, George, Caroline, Ned, FurAngelDaniel, TheArkieKatz and Mom Diana

  17. Diane, Cassie, and Hunter

    We are so heartsad at the loss of this sweet lady. She was a special human being, and she was so kind and considerate and so loving to both humans and our four legged family members. She was so happy when we adopted she found out about Cassie and Hunter, they had a special place in her heart because they are both rescue pups.

    Sincere condolences to Wendy’s dearest friends and family, she will be missed.

    Hugs,
    Diane, Cassie, and Hunter

  18. DarlaMae

    Our love prayers and deepest comdolences for Wendy & her beloved family. She was a loving warm and caring pal to all she came across whether it was one time or many. Bless you and your family.
    DarlaMae and Mom

  19. Julie and Sophie

    I did not know Wendy but I wanted to give our condolences to everyone who did, and who will miss her dearly. It is easy to tell by these posts how she touched lives and was so loved.

    Sophie and Julie

  20. River

    It is truly a sad day in our wonderful land. Our deepest condolences to Wendy’s wonderful family. xoxo River & Mum

  21. Flicka

    Our love and respects goes out to Wendy’s family.

    Wendy was always there to laugh and cry and calm and CARE.

    This will leave a big gap in the lives of many.

    Rest peacefully Wendy… know that your legacy will go on.

    Pam… Flicka and Lucas.

  22. Valentino

    Our thoughts and prayers are with Wendy’s family during this sad time.

  23. Ravan, Kandi, Benny Bear & Mama Sam

    Our dear friend Wendy heard and answered the call, but she will never be forgotten here in our world. She was the kind of friend that we all should be, compassionate, loving, and kind.

    She love each of us unconditionally and that was evident as she was the voice of her furbabies here. It won’t be the same with out her cheery way of making every situation good.

    I am so thankful to be counted among her friends as I feel she taught me many things just by being that friend.

    I guess that GOD needed a new angel and therefore he selected her for the journey. I know in my heart that she is looking down and saying to us….”don’t cry for me, I am where I need to be”… but it is hard to keep the tears from flowing. Just know that you will never be forgotten.

    Our family and furbabies pray blessing on your family and furbabies Wendy. So long, until we meet again.

    Mama Sam, Cowboy, Ravan, Kandi, Benny Bear and the rest of our fur family

  24. Cosmo and Stacey

    We have seen Spy and Wendy around in some of the groups, but never had the privilege of really knowing her. It is so obvious how special and loved Wendy was. Our deepest condolences go out to all of her family, friends and furbabies. Our hearts are with you during this difficult time.

  25. Blackie, Cashew, Dingles, Hermie and Mom, Kellie

    Wendy will be missed by all that knew her and even those who didnt. She is a very kind person with a big heart. May her family find comfort in her memories and love. You are all in our hearts,
    thoughts and prayers.
    Kellie and Blackie, Dingles, Cashew and Hermie

  26. Donna DePasquale

    Wendy was my sister…I’m so sorry to hear of the loss…tears are flowing here…but I hope she went easy and painless…she was a beautiful lady inside and out. I’m so sorry.

  27. Jubilee's Mom

    Goodbye and sleep well sweet Wendy.

  28. Thumper's mom,Susan

    Who knew,2 years ago,When our paths crossed,that Wendy would touch my life so,but she did…and never did a time go by that,that we did not talk about her favorite topic,Dogster….nor her favorite group,C & D Cruise Line….How she would laugh at our magical over night cruises to far away lands.
    I have no one to call now,unless I look heaven bound,I cannot send a pic so she can see,nor get her honest approval before I print it; I have no one to give GIMP lessons too,oh how she loved those;I have no one to confined to tell all my worries to,God took my friend,my sister and the tears refuse to stop and the ache hurts…..
    I will try Wendy to carry your spirit forth,you were all about Dogster, your beloved groups shall live.
    Rest my sweet sister…
    I love you,hugs
    sis

  29. Jazmine Gibbon and Mia

    Wendy was an amazing person. She provided not only fun and laughter, but comfort and support to those in need. She made such a significant contribution to the dogster community and she had a positive impact to any group she participated in. We will miss her enthusiasm for life, advocacy for animals and love for her pets. And most of all, we will miss her friendship.

    Wendy, you will always be in our hearts. We will never forget you, friend.

  30. Billiebob

    We are so grieved for Spy and his family. We see Wendy is truly luvved by many and an exeptional human being with a great big heart. To see her is to love her. We know she will be dearly missed by all who knew her and wish the family whatever solace they can find during this time, and take strength in the support and love of friends.

  31. TedEbear & Mommy Juanita

    We did not know Wendy, but her pictures just oozes with Love and concern.She must have been the most WONDERFUL human being!!
    I’m sorry I never got to make her acquaintance.
    Love and Peace to her family and furmily that are left behind.
    God Bless you in this time of sorry
    TedEbear and Mommy Juanita

  32. Darby

    Though i never got the chance to know Wendy, i can see by all the responses how much she was loved! My deepest condolences to her family!

    Hugs,
    Darby and mom

  33. Moxie's dad

    I met Wendy, Spy and family a couple years ago in Berkeley at a meetup. She was so kind and giving. I regret that I lost touch with her. I lost out on a friendship with a wonderful person.
    Always make time for people………

  34. Little Foot

    We did not know Wendy, but are so sad that someone who obviously loved Dogster and was loved by the Dogster community so much is gone way too soon. We wish to send our prayers and condolences to Wendy’s grieving family.
    Hugs, Little Foot, Furby, Sam, Sugar, Cocoa, Gracie, Angels Mikey, Minnie, Weevils and mom Rhonda

  35. Murphman & Ragtime

    Words cannot begin to express our loss….sometimes in one’s life, special people come along and are a great blessing…a great gift from the Lord..a great prayer warrior….Wendy was one of those…Peace to her family

    Murphy, Ragtime and mom, Kay and all at Critters Care through Prayer

  36. Kaiser and family

    Our love and prayers to Wendy’s family.

  37. Rocky, Sarge and Darbi, mom

    We are so very sad about the news of Wendy, a cherished member of the community.
    Our prayers are with her dear family for comfort and peace at this sad time.

  38. peek a boo

    Our prayers and thoughts go out to Wendy’s family
    All angels will be there to greet her

  39. Prince and Snickers

    We had just met this beautiful sole. We didn’t know that she was sick and when we came on dogster and read that she had passed. Our heart fell. So hard to believe and we wonder why?? Why , when she was so young and so full of life.
    We want to wish the very best to her family and fur the dogster furriends she will always be remembered in each of our hearts! God Bless her family and hold then close as they go through this sad, sad time.

  40. Tank, Mazy, Bruiser and Stephanie

    I remember meeting Spy shortly after we came to Dogster and always thought his Mom was one of the kindest and most caring people. It was obvious how much she cared about everyone and always wanted to help others. She will be greatly missed here but NEVER forgotten.
    Rest In Peace beautiful Wendy. You are very loved.
    Tank and Family

  41. ESPERANZA & MOM, PEGGY

    Spy & Wendy were one of my first pals on Dogster. Then Wendy injured her knee at about the same time I injured my first knee. We spoke regularly on Dogster then exchanged e-mail addresses.

    Sometimes we spoke several times a week, sometimes once a week or less. No matter how often we spoke she always had a kind word to say and sage advice to give. As the months went on we grew closer. Her last e-mail was sent to me only a couple days before her death, sadly I DID NOT answer it before she passed. It is a perfect example of what they says “tomorrow is not promised to anyone”. Who would know that I WOULD NOT have “tomorrow” to answer Wendy.

    I am going to miss her terribly and will always hold a special place in my heart for memories of her.

    Peggy (Esperanza’s mom)

  42. Sadie

    I really did not know Wendy, but by these responses I can tell she was an amazing person with a big heart. She will be missed dearly by all her dogster friends and family. My deepest condolences to her family.

    Sadie the Husky

  43. Karen

    I knew Wendy through some of the groups we were in together, what a wonderful insight she had on life. Wendy, you will truly be missed and my heart goes out to Spy who will miss his mommy very much. Condolences to Wendy’s family and friends in this very hard time.

  44. Peggy

    I never had the opportunity to meet Wendy, but from reading all the above letters, I wish I had.
    She sounds like a beautiful person that will truly be missed by all who knew her.
    My deepest condolences to all of her family, and friends.

  45. Dyna, Bo, and Chloe

    We just recently saw Wendy’s picture on Dogster and was drawn to her. She is a beautiful person inside and out. Even though we never got to know you, you are missed. We are so sorry for your loss.
    Prayers for you and your family. xoxoxo

  46. Ang

    We will always miss a person with a BIG HEART AND KIDNESS……..prayers and hugs to her family

  47. Spinner & Mom Lou

    Wendy..What can I say..Just starting to type I start to cry..
    She befriended me first..somehow I can’t quite recall she pmailed me about how cute she thought Spinner was..and we began to pmail each other very often.. & talk on the phone 2-3 times every week..
    She then asked me to let her make Spinner an Administrator at C & D..It had kinda slowed down & she so wanted it to make a comeback..She loved that group for Cats & Dogs she said..
    She said I’ll send Spinner to Captain’s school Sept. 1-30th..But to be fair to Cats..She asked me to let’s make King Suede a Captain too!..The first Cat Captain..
    So we sent both Spinner & King Suede to Captain’s School & they graduated Sept. 30th! and she gave them a celebration..
    When Spy & Nat got married she asked Spinner to be his Best man & he was because his best buddy Thumper was the minister…I was so proud Spinner was Spy’s best man..
    Then Spinner married Liz & Cowboy on horseback..That was alot of fun too..And the cookouts Spy & Nat had at their ranch meant so much to Wendy..but to us too..So much fun..such a great host..
    She was just a special, special lady..I still am in shock..I just can’t seem to get straight..I just cry..& cry..until my head pounds..Sorry Wendy..I can’t believe it..I fear not helping Thumper enough with C & D..I can’t replace you Wendy for Thumper & Susan..I’ll try but ..I’ll type more later..Lou/Spinner

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